I pray we could see a revolution in the church regarding this crucial subject and not feel pressured to follow a pattern of unhealthy, recreational dating that often leads to such heartache.
Every stage of the dating process, from finding someone to date, to developing a relationship, has its own particular difficulties.
Seeking Soulmate shares case vignettes, relatable characters, and personal experiences from Ajjan’s clinical experience to illustrate how the personal insight gained with practicing mindfulness can transform the anxiety, negative thoughts, and overall hopelessness that accompanies the unsuccessful pursuit of love into fun, rewarding, exciting dating adventures.
One, to find the love of his life (spoiler, he does not) and to get material for a website/book (which he does).
What he got for his Herculean effort was a parade of 'bat shit crazy'.
In Seeking Soulmate: Ditch the Dating Game and Find Real Connection, Brooklyn-based therapist Chamin Ajjan offers a fresh perspective to this universal pursuit.
With a friendly, funny, and informative approach, Ajjan applies the evidence-based theories of Cognitive Behavior Therapy and mindfulness meditation practice to the negative behaviors, thoughts, and patterns that cause dating distress.How could you ask such a shining specimen of a man to be satisfied with the likes of me? But in a March 2016 interview with Jonathan Ross, the host asked if any of her journals contain memories of a Ford-Fisher hookup.”Fisher has teased her crush for her co-star in the past. She responded that they “seemed to be trending in that direction.” She wavers a bit; however: “But it didn’t happen! Fisher keeps it interesting: “It might happen, it might not happen.” star.Ajjan provides an explanation for dating difficulties, a foundation for practice, and practical exercises to create real change.These methods are available to everyone, regardless of age, socioeconomic status, ethnic, cultural, or religious background, or sexual orientation.Oh, I thought there were pretty funny moments in this book....this book was meant to be funny, but for me it was a book of horror.