The idea of holding out on sex is another thing, and also wanting to take the man to church.
Jamaican men tend to seek the path of least resistance.
Richard G, non-Christian: It's more like not wanting to touch the Lord's anointed.
Christian women like to talk about marriage and most men don't like to feel as if they are being forced into something they're not ready for.
They will love, honour, obey and see you as the man of the house, the king.
But many men shy away from Christian women despite these attributes, leaving the church pews filled with eligible women and very few takers, and this week they're telling why.
Also, most men want to test the water, to see if it's what they expected.
What if you run into marriage and you can't satisfy her needs? Damion G, non-Christian: Lots of women in the church are there because they have gone through some kind of emotional relationship or financial issues. This baggage is bound to show up in other relationships.
How can you keep your relationship clean in God’s eyes, especially in view of the tremendous pressure on couples to throw moral restraint aside? Standards Tailor-Made for Our Benefit At Isaiah , 18, we read: “I, Jehovah, am your God, the One teaching you to benefit yourself, the One causing you to tread in the way in which you should walk.
First, recognize that God’s standards were set down with our very best interests in mind. Third, lay definite ground rules for right behavior. O if only you would actually pay attention to my commandments!
It doesn’t talk about being single, dating, dating some more, hooking up, hanging out but not really dating, living together but not being married, swiping left and right, etc.
That doesn’t mean the Bible is out-of-date; it may mean that we’re just doing this whole dating thing wrong.
Maybe this is why we see so much sneaky and restrained young Christian dating behavior.