Maybe we both need to find more demonstrative people? Since you are both guarded, you at least understand how he feels and he understands you. When you are together, turn off your cell phone and computer and just pay attention to him. When all of that is second nature, add another baby step, like little kisses or hand holding. THANK him when he does something nice for you, no matter how small or insignificant. I will try harder to let him know that I appreciate what he does.
The damsel with the wide set, oh-so-innocent Bambi eyes that forever glisten with swelling emotion.
Moviegoers are collectively awestruck by this adorable specimen in her girly, yet tomboyish attire, gleaming with the glow of patience as she teaches her damaged male love interest the poignant lesson of loving with an open heart.
If you're loving an emotionally unavailable man who remains at a distance, isn't emotionally open, and who has admitted distrust in women, it's best you extend an unspoken invitation for him to get to know you and come close, rather than trying to "pull" love out of him like fingers from a Chinese finger cuff.
Just like a Chinese finger cuff, his love will resist your advances.
My other dog is a sweet-hearted Chihuahua mix who's very polite and doesn't know a stranger.
Little Pumpkin warmed up right away to my Chihuahua mix but not to my Jack Russell mix. Because my Chihuahua mix invited Pumpkin to come closer, as opposed to my Jack Russell mix who constantly tried to bruise his way into her space.
It may have nothing to do with looks or personality, but everything to do with a past that only burnt them in a time when they weren’t single.
Most people have stories of heartbreak, while other people are completely defined by these stories, and until you hear them firsthand, beginning to end, you will never truly understand a person.
Learning how to connect with emotionally unavailable men is like learning how to gain the trust of a beaten dog.