If your hero/role model is Californication’s Hank Moody, you may not just be playing the field, you may have deeper intimacy issues that might be worth addressing. Let potential lovers know up front that as much as you may be into them, you are not into having a one and only. (Well, strictly speaking, that’s not true, but in this situation, it can be a mood killer for your date.) Women dish. Likewise, if you’ve got several “friends with benefits,” concentrate on the benefits and downplay the friends part.
You may be buddy-buddy with chicks you’re intimate with, but oversharing can lead to dwindling returns in the sack.
Of course, once I met someone stellar, I stopped with the two-timing and focused my energy on one wonderful man.
I’ve also noticed that she’s happiest when she’s dating a couple of people at once.
This has changed now that she has started seeing someone she really likes, but until recently, I encouraged her to keep seeing this other, duddier guy throughout, just so she wouldn’t concentrate all of her anxieties on one dude.
I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.
I know how borderline insane that sounds, but I did that too when I was single: About six months after a long relationship ended, I dated two men, a professor and a crazy person, basically on two opposing sides of the spectrum, for about a month simultaneously. I knew I wasn’t serious about both, didn’t get hung up on either, and walked away bruise-free.
“Glustony” signals an unhealthy appetite for sexual conquest. If you're serious about playing the field and a girl seems hell-bent on changing your mind, it’s time to look for the exit. If you’ve brought someone home recently and have another rendezvous stacked and circling, police your quarters and 86 anything that can’t be explained away as your own. If you’re into sport sex to impress your pals with your stats, again, you’re in it for the wrong reasons.
Yes, there are plenty of fish in the sea and no, there’s nothing wrong with being on a seafood diet, but the opposite sex is not an all-you-can-eat buffet. Intellectually, a girl might be fine with being one of several, but no one likes having their nose rubbed in someone else’s dirty panties. Loose lips, while commendable for other oral endeavors, can bite you in the ass during the post-game playback analysis.
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My best friend has been single for the past six months, after being in a relationship for five years.
I’ve watched her go through all of the phases I went through when I was freshly out of a long-term relationship: thinking about dating; dating; embarking on a dating freeze; swearing off dating forever, with and without a solemn oath; and trying on every state in between.
A girl’s going to reason that if you’re talking about someone else’s performance, you’re also talking about hers, and chances are, she’s not going to like the idea.