and that being lean/skinny for a man is a bad thing because only women are supposed to be slim.
Also he said in the dating world slim men are at the bottom of the barrell and are seen undesirable as fat women.
Yeah, with the exception of the hetero bit, that’s not my reality at all because there is nothing tiny about me!
Every once in a while, I like to poll my readers on the Nerd Love Facebook Page and on Twitter to find out what issues they feel are holding them back when it comes to dating.
And the most common answer is: “I worry that I’m too fat to date.” I’ll be honest: I’m not surprised. According to the Center for Disease Control, 69% of adults 20 years old and over are overweight and 35% are considered obese.
Avoid wearing tee-shirt Wear more long sleeve shirts Look neat and well shaved at all time.
Put on a truck load of confidence knowing that, you're just as human as others Eat well and above all, be proud of your outlook. If guys that are fat can be controlling chicks left-right-and-centre, how much more a skinny guy.
You will also do well to hit the gym to add some pieces of meat. And for the records, you need to change that perception of yours.
Yes, I know it's discouraging to be "rejected" by someone.
I read a thread on Front Page about how skinny guys can do better in the dating arena yesterday, and even though the guy had some cool points, it is still a harsh world out there for a skinny dude. So, after the date, I asked her on BBM what she felt about me. Well, to be completely devoid of any trace of biased opinions, the world out there is difficult if you're skinny, same with if you are fat. While you may not be able to compete with big muscular guys when it comes to getting girls, there are however things you can do to improve yourself.
and she said, although I told her I was slim, she didn't know I was that skinny. Avoid wearing tee-shirt Wear more long sleeve shirts Look neat and well shaved at all time.
So now I'm determined to put on weight and look more alpha.
This guy I was speaking to was pretty big (think of brock lesnar) and i'd like to look like that one day but it might not be in my genes cause all my family seen to be ectomorphs.( (I'm only 5 10 and weight 154) so my questions are... does being slim hurt a man's chances when trying to attract women?
are there any men here who noticed an increase in female attention after they put on weight/bulked up?