Not every woman is this way, of course, but almost ALL of my clients could meet your description: 36 to 44. I get the feeling that a guy has really got to fit into that space so that it is convenient to them, or that a guy has to excite them and fit all their checklist criteria before they are interested in dating. And you’ve just arrived at the primary problem that my clients have when it comes to forging successful long-term relationships; they don’t want anything to change.They want the exact same life that they had previously, just with a man thrown in there for good measure. I have tremendous respect for them and know that without them, I don’t even have a business.No many more types could be included on this list, and some men may fit into many categories.
I met smart, strong, successful single women at all of these events.
It struck me recently that all of these women give off a vibe that is similar. They are in a comfortable space with their work, family, friends, and their leisure time.
I am also more in tune with my intuition at this point in my life. They seem to be vaguely open to a relationship: they get out there to socialize occasionally, but family, friends and hobbies take up most of their free time.
That intuition further tells me that these women are all on a similar path. I get the feeling that a guy has really got to fit into that space so that it is convenient to them, or that a guy has to excite them and fit all their checklist criteria before they are interested in dating.
This means that you have to be smart about how you use your time.
The time is there, it’s mostly just a question of effectively using your time.If my assessment is correct, then based on your blog, I should not make much effort here, because this type of woman does not deem a relationship to be a priority. If so, should I flirt and do some sophisticated version of what those seduction community coaches teach?I’ve tried that before, and the more tasteful approaches do lower a woman’s guard, but it has never led anywhere in the end anyway.For this article I used the descriptions of women who have shared their online dating experiences with me to describe 11 types of (heterosexual) men who are drawn to Internet dating.I realize, as do you, that there are infinite varieties of men who engage in online dating for infinite reasons.The best way to effectively use your time to make room for the social life you are lacking is to keep a diary down to the minute.